Thursday, August 6, 2009

My Little Dilemma

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I'm sure we've all come across an annoying salesman. All you wanted to do was "take a look," but no, he was on your tail, up selling, talking, and just generally annoying you from the second you walked into the store. I know I'm not the only one who was ever in that situation. Flash backwards to my first ever job with a real paycheck, taxes, everything. It was just a summer thing, in between 11th and 12th grade. I was still young, only 16, so not very many places would hire an inexperienced "youngin." I hate to say it, but yes, I was a telemarketer. The pressure was unbelievable. If I didn't sell anything all day I felt horrible. On top of that I felt like I was swindling the poor and elderly into more debt and problems. Needless to say, I hated that job, and never took another one like it. Why? I hate salesmen and I hate selling.

Now why do I bring up this topic? Well, I have a problem. Numerous times in Robert Kiyosaki's books he discusses the importance of becoming a good salesman. He often refers to the fact that he isn't the best writing author, but a best selling one. That makes perfect sense. Although I find his books interesting, I must admit that I've seen better writing. The way he suggests becoming a good salesman is through finding a job that will teach you to become one and force you to overcome those fears of rejection (I'm not so much afraid of rejection, I just hate annoying people). He refers to his 2 years with the Xerox company. At first he was the worst salesman in the company, repeatedly, for over a year. Then he began to learn, grow, and overcome those fears. Soon he was the top selling rep for the company. He suggests getting a job with a company that has a good selling program or joining a network marketing company. My dilemma? I don't wanna to that.

I've thought about it for a long time. I could potentially work for a network marketing group. I've even thought of two good companies that I find would be a good fit for me, but...I don't wanna. So, should I bite the bullet and try out his advice or just learn about selling from books, seminars, and the building up of my own business? It's hard to say, but either way I've got a decision to make.

2 comments:

  1. THat is a tricky situation...I agree with you that I hate selling. However there are better sales people than others. I truly find that the gifted sales people play off of emotions of others. DOes that make sense? I think that if they know you like it that they will tell you other people have made offers on it today or it is the last one in stock...crap like that. They might be lying, but it really works well that I've noticed! Just some food for thought...what do you think?

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  2. That completely makes sense. One thing I've noticed is that they make it sound like they're your best friend and that they'll hang out with you and be there to enjoy your purchase with you. But, it's never true. I really think that I like the idea of working in my own business or company. I can't wait to get started. I have a friend of mine in the real estate bizz who said he'd crunch numbers and check out properties to see if they'll be profitable. Hoorah!

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